My child, live outside of yourself. Learn to see the needs of others and do something about those needs. That is where I am working. That is where I am most glorified, filling the needs of others. So be done with self absorption.  Lay down your life and take up the one I have designed for you. This brings Me great pleasure. This displays much faith. Serve rather than wanting to be served. Love rather than seeking to be loved. Be kind to others rather than expecting others to be kind to you. Do these things and you will have the joyful life you are seeking.